Dont be afraid of what you can become

Many days of wondering how I am, it hit me hard. I am me, we are the people we are today through our environment. Some are better listeners, maybe their parents were great listeners and that's how they developed that skill. Everyone must believe in themselves and the person they are good and bad. The people around us everyday know us best. So when a topic is on our minds that is conflicting us they will be the first to be concerned. After talking through the issue on your mind you may start to feel more relaxed, you might ease up on yourself but best of all you know in your mind someone cares enough to come to you asking what is on your mind. This simple gesture of kindness can spark all kinds of confidence in you.

So those of us with self doubt and resentment of ourselves may think we can not change and that we are who we are and our life is destined to hurt the ones around us. We must not focus on these negatives. We cant sit by on the sidelines while our negative side takes over and runs us out of our minds. Negative minds can quickly make you think that you are the worst person in the world. So this is where I want to remind you that you are not. So what to do if your negative side takes over? Run, Just kidding. No you have to take some time to yourself to think about why you are feeling negative, who is it hurting around me, and how is it effecting my everyday life. Answer those three questions and I am sure that you will be well on your way to healing yourself. Just keep fighting those negative demons and putting your mindset into a powerful positive one and who knows what you can accomplish.

A favorite quote of mine is "80 percent of the game is half mental", yes i know it is a yogism but it really serves a purpose here. It tells us that life like sports in yogi berra's case is all about attitude. So how do you wish to approach life? I personally over the past 3 months have approached it in a negative light. So I with the help of the people close to me including my beautiful girlfriend have figured that if i can just start to approach life differently than other people around me will approach how they talk to me as well which then will heal two people rather than one. This positive attitude can also help with other areas as well life full filling a goal you wanted to accomplish because you had the mentality that I can climb this mountain, and sometimes it is as easy as saying that to yourself. So just stand up and tell yourself that you can do this you are fully capable and that the people around you believe in you too. Just make sure that you know what the negative mindsets are in your life and know what causes them to take over and have a plan to know how to fight them back. Just remember to think positively and tell her I love her everyday.